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We’re back with another BEFRIENDED chit-chat with one of my favorite Australian authors, Pip Harry. She’s responsible for writing two books I’ve loved/devoured/wanted to kiss and hug,Â Head of the River andÂ I’ll Tell YouÂ Mine.
When I finished HotR this summer, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. The scenes were so incredibly vivid and it was so apparent that Pip was writing from first-hand rowing experience. (Note: I think Pip is pretty bad ass for having gone through such rigorous training and lived to talk about it!) One thing I also loved seeing was Leni, a very introverted, focused girl, open up to new friendships and realizing the competition was about more than winning. I really wanted to talk to Pip about her experiences and how those transformedÂ Head of the River.
Thank you so much to Pip for being so candid and open, and for writing such an impeccable story I can’t wait to share with my friends.
Head of the River by Pip Harry
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Summary (from Goodreads):Â It’s the most elite school sporting event in the country. Nine rowers, 2000 gruelling metres and one chance for glory in the ultimate team sport. Sit forward … ROW.Â
Tall, gifted and the offspring of Olympians, superstar siblings Leni and Cristian Popescu are set to row Harley Grammar to victory in the Head of the River.Â
With six months until the big race, the twins can’t lose. Or can they?Â
When Cristian is seduced by the easy route of performance-enhancing drugs, and Leni is suffocated with self-doubt, their bright futures start to fade. Juggling family, high expectations, study, break-ups, new relationships and wild parties, the pressure starts to build.Â
As the final moments tick down to the big race, whoâ€™ll make it to the start line? And who’ll plummet from grace?
Before you began training for the Head of the River competition, how would you describe your personality?
Before I started rowing and training for the Head of the River I was a heavily chlorinated swimmer. My attitude to training and competing was entirely selfish â€“ how fast could I go? How much could I take off my time? I had friends in my squads, but nothing like the buddies I would make in the boat.
How were you changed by the women you rowed with and what Big Life Lessons did you take away from your experience?
The girls and women I rowed with and coached were all so different (shapes, sizes, personalities!) but we all had to learn how to blend those differences into one cohesive, powerful machine. I learnt that a bad day on the water for them was a bad day for me. It sounds corny as hell, but rowing made me appreciate working as a team and the true bonding nature of team sports. I was inspired by the coaches who believed in me and led by example and were so wise and generous with their time. I was changed by my crewmates who showed strength, desire and determination. I was changed by the competition, which was cruel and unforgiving, but also joyous and exhilarating.
I learnt so many life lessons in the boat â€“ how to work as a smaller cog in a bigger wheel, which has helped me enormously in life and work. I learnt to quietly endure pain and suffering in the boat (think rain, cold, blister, endless drills) which has given me more grit and determination (particularly in my writing career) I learnt that even the best team can lose on the day. You need good preparation but also a sprinkle of luck and fair winds. If you want to be a contender, youâ€™ve got to roll with the losses, get up and have another crack.
Were you more like Leni, who had a lot to learn relationally, or were you more like Cris, who lacked passion for the sport and did it to please his parents?
As a rower I was equal parts Leni and Cris. Which is why the book was so fun to write! Like Leni I was a high achiever. I rowed in a state crew at nationals, getting there on hard work, obsession and all the A type personality traits that Leni has. At times this made me incredible hard to be around. I used to get frustrated at anyone who couldnâ€™t keep up, I preferred to row like a bull at a gate all the time (no easy strokes) and I was very strict and tough on myself. I struggled to hold down romantic relationships in my late teens and early 20s because I put myself and my training first and I was completely inflexible. On the other hand, I also had a Cris streak (who doesnâ€™t right?) I struggled to keep my weight down because I love, love sweets and junk foods. Iâ€™m also sometimes very seduced by sleep ins and can easily be talked into skipping training. Iâ€™m quite lazy at times and at high school, my teachers despaired at the lack of effort I made with subjects that didnâ€™t interest me or I found difficult.
How long has it been since you were a Head of the River competitor, and what are your relationships like today with the women you rowed with?
The last crew I coached through to the Head of the River was in 1998. They were a quad scull of funny and talented 14-15 year old schoolgirls who rowed the A final and came second by a fingernail. Heartbreaking! They dissolved after that race, and I did too. We had to pick ourselves up and realise we were 2nd fasted in the entire state, and that was pretty bloody fantastic! Also, who really cared in the end? We had just had four months of laughs, fun and learning. And they had gone from virtual strangers to close friends. Thatâ€™s what itâ€™s all about. The last time I was in the boat myself was around 2005 in a veteranâ€™s crew (aged over 27 years) I had my biggest success and won five gold medals at the Australian Masters Games. I loved rowing with those older women, because they were more settled in themselves, understood it wasnâ€™t life or death (it was just a race) and they had better wine, food and accommodation during away regattas!
Iâ€™m still in contact with some of the women I rowed with when I was a teenager and they are in the acknowledgments page of the book. Yesterday I got an email from Lucy, who I rowed with when I was 16-18 years old. She invited me to her 40th birthday celebrations and said her husband would pay for my interstate flight as part of his present to her â€“ that might tell you how much we value each otherâ€™s friendship all these years later! Another rowing friend, Ingrid, sat with me in a cafÃ© here in Sydney and gave me ideas for certain racing scenes in Head of the River. Another friend, Kate, was my running and training buddy and even though we are now busy mums, we still meet up every few years to talk about those crazy days on the river. Others Iâ€™ve lost touch with, but they hold a marker in my heart. I will never forget anyone I rowed with.
Thank you so very much to Pip for sharing her experiences with us and theÂ awesome teenage photographs of herself!
Friends, please, please pick up a copy ofÂ Head of the River.
Need more convincing? Read my review of Head of the River!