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Estelle: Stir Me Up by Sabrina Elkins

Stir Me Up by Sabrina ElkinsStir Me Up by Sabrina Elkins ( web | tweet )
Publication Date: October 1, 2013
Publisher: Harlequin Teen
Pages: 268
Target audience: Young adult/mature
Keywords: Marines, cooking, post-high school fears
Format read: ARC from Publisher via NetGalley! (Thanks!)

Summary: When Cami’s stepmom’s nephew, Julian, is terribly injured in Afghanistan, he moves into Cami’s bedroom and she moves into an alcove. Turned off by his moody behavior, Cami tries to forget he is even there, going on with her cooking at her dad’s restaurant and her secret hang outs with her boyfriend. But when Julian’s tough exterior finally starts to break down a bit, Cami is surprised by what she feels for him. Could this ever work?

Sabrina Elkins can tell a story. An absolutely addicting story. Here’s why:

  • Cami has valid insecurities just like any of us. It’s her senior year of high school and all Cami wants to do when she graduates is cook. Not go to college like her dad wants, but to cook in a restaurant, like the one she has grown up in. It’s not easy to balance what you want and what your parent wants for you. In addition, Cami is in a relationship that is leading up to her losing her virginity and she is petrified. She really doesn’t want to. I wish more characters were open about this fear (instead of automatically being a crazy sex goddess before they’ve lost their virginity).
  • Since his injury, Julian is going through a lot of physical and emotional changes. In ways, Elkes’ characterization of Julian reminded me of Travis in Something Like Normal. He’s seen some terrible things, he’s been through a horrific ordeal, and he is angry. He is really really angry. Even when his anger is displaced (most of the time), this felt so true to his situation. And his recovery? The details of his rehabilitation? I like that Elkes took the time to go into that part of it too.
  • Cami and Julian’s slow burn romance. These kids did not rush into anything. In fact, they deserve some applause because I think they did a commendable job of trying to stay away from one another. (It is kind of awkward since Cami’s stepmom thinks of Julian as her son.) But you know, Cami is the only one who will put Julian in his place and when they start to warm up to each other, he’s really nice and helpful and wants her to figure out what she wants out of life (with or without him in the picture). There’s a friendship and tenderness there.
  • It’s not all about sex. Don’t misunderstand me. This book is hot. (I think the first kiss goes down in history as one of the best ever.) But sex is not the end goal. It’s just a thing that may or may not happen. And most importantly, the depiction and the moments leading up to all of it, it all comes down to a boy and a girl. Not who has more skills or what words they use to describe things. It’s just about a boy and a girl.
  • Parental pressures. Cami’s restaurant-owning dad is concerned that he may not have been around for her much because of his work schedule. He so wants Cami to understand the sacrifices he had to make because of his passion for food, which is why he wants her to go to college and “do more with herself”. I like how this plotline subtly popped up during the story. (And a main character with a serious hobby? Loved this. Elkins doesn’t joke around either; there are recipes included at the end of the book!)
  • Lastly, it’s funny. Stir Me Up is not only about chemistry, or serious post-high school decisions. Cami has a great best friend who texts the best messages, and Cami’s dad is a Grade-A food snob and this leads to some very interesting family dinners.

Have I convinced you? It was so nice to read a well-rounded new adult book with two character that certainly had baggage, but it was believable baggage that made them oh-so relatable.

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May 2, 2014 - 9:01 am

Unraveled by Jen Frederick (Why in 5) - […] is a Marine. Okay, so what? So what is Julian in Stir Me Up by Sabrina Elkins, Travis in Something Like Normal by Trish Doller and even Aiden The […]

November 4, 2013 - 2:51 pm

Alexa Y. - I really, really, REALLY want to read this book! I might have snagged a copy after seeing it being talked about on Twitter, but your thoughts on it have definitely convinced me that I should bump it up on the reading list. It sounds fun, but it also sounds like it’s got a lot of depth — and I love that!

November 1, 2013 - 12:41 pm

Judith - Everyone has been raving about this book lately, which makes me want to pick it up. That’s funny, because I would never read it if it weren’t for all these raving reviews. It’s great that sex is so well handled in this book, because I always roll my eyes at characters whose first time is “perfect”. Yeah right. I’m glad you enjoyed this so much, and I think I just might get myself a copy soon. 🙂

October 31, 2013 - 9:16 am

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October 24, 2013 - 12:01 am

Review: Stir Me Up by Sabrina Elkins | Quinn's Book Nook - […] on this book.  So many bloggers loved this book, so I urge you to check out some of their reviews (Estelle, Betty, Cass) because maybe this book will blow you […]

October 21, 2013 - 12:20 pm

Jess @ Gone with the Words - You’ve convinced me I should REread this one soon! Seriously, thanks for bringing this book to my attention. And I love that our reviews are a bit similar in format and content. That’s why we’re friends. 😀

October 15, 2013 - 8:05 am

Gaby @ Queen Ella Bee Reads - EVERYONE is making me want to read this one RIGHT NOW. I might just have to. Oh well.

October 14, 2013 - 8:42 pm

April Books & Wine - I bought this after “listening” to twitter chatter about it.

There are slow burns? HUZZAH!

October 13, 2013 - 1:18 pm

Lauren @ Lose Time Reading - *Swoon* I love Julian!!! I’m so glad you loved this one Estelle… and I loved the slow burning romance as well. It’s actually probably my favorite part about the book (well, ok besides the cooking and the swooning :P), it’s so rare to see one of those lately and AH! I died for it 🙂 Love your review!!!

October 12, 2013 - 1:49 pm

Vivian - While I enjoyed this, I didn’t love it like I was hoping. I def loved J&C’s relationship, the buildup and how real it felt, and all the food references, but besides that, it didn’t do anything for me. I especially hated Cami’s dad, haha. Anyways, glad you liked it Estelle!

October 10, 2013 - 10:14 am

Cassie - Obviously I loved this book as well. It was truly so much more than I had expected and I’m glad you enjoyed it so much as well!

I totally agree on the slow burn romance and obviously the whole book is DELICIOUS 😉

Can’t wait for the NEXT!!

October 9, 2013 - 3:44 pm

Maggie @ Just a Couple More Pages - You know I was totally blown away by this one and absolutely loved it. I’m really glad you and other people have loved it too because when I finished I was so shocked at how much I loved it that I wondered if I was going a little crazy or if it was really that good.

And Something Like Normal is a great comparison. Now that I’m thinking about it I actually think Cami and Harper are a lot a like, too. They both have hobbies and passions, they’re both daughters of single fathers, and they’re both that very real blend of confidence/insecurity that’s totally appropriate for girls their age.

October 9, 2013 - 12:32 pm

Quinn @ Quinn's Book Nook - Yes! Yes, you have totally convinced me that I need to read Stir Me Up. I wasn’t sure at first, because Cami already had a boyfriend. I wasn’t sure if there would be cheating, so I was a little hesitant. But clearly this book is right up my alley. Plus, yay for funny parts!

Thanks for the review!

October 9, 2013 - 10:58 am

Lucy - Oh my this book does sound good! Humor, and food, and slow burn romance are some of my favorite book topics. So eager to read this one.

October 9, 2013 - 10:01 am

Maria - Oh, you’re good! Yet so very bad for my wallet. But I’ll forgive you this time since it was basically for free. 🙂

October 9, 2013 - 9:24 am

Christina @ Allodoxophobia - YES 100% all of the above. The funny was actually my favorite part and what I felt really sets this one apart from other contemporary YA/NA romances.

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