[dropcap]K[/dropcap]ristan Higgins goes down as one of my top reading discoveries I’ve experienced through working on Rather Be Reading Blog. She’s a romance writer, yes, but it’s the the way she infuses family and comedy into her work that makes Kristan a standout to me. That being said, I was so excited she was trying something a little bit different with her next release, IF YOU ONLY KNEWÂ (HQN Books/August 25). Think Emily Giffin, Jane Green, and maybe a little bit of Marisa de los Santos in this tale centered on sisterhood. Jenny is moving back to her small New York town to open a wedding dress boutique, and her sister, Rachel, is the attentive mom and wife but can’t figure out what to do when she finds sexy texts on her husband’s cell phone. Both are at a crossroads, and struggling with unexpected complications weighing them down. I loved how close these sisters were (yet they weren’t afraid to disagree), how grief affects everyone differently, and how it’s never too late to try something new. I’ll warn you though: clear your schedule for this one. You won’t want to anything to interrupt your time with IF YOU ONLY KNEW. It’s captivating, complicated, and oh-so good.
Today I’m so thrilled to share an excerpt from chapter 1 ofÂ IF YOU ONLY KNEWÂ — which is out on shelves tomorrow!
Jenny:Â Today is one of those days when I realize that staying friends with my ex- husband was a huge mistake.
Iâ€™m at the baby shower for Ana-Sofia, Owenâ€™s wife and my replacement. Indeed, Iâ€™m sitting next to her, a place of honor in this circle of beaming well- wishers, and Iâ€™m probably beaming just as hard as everyone else. Harder, even, my Gosh, isnâ€™t it wonderful, sheâ€™s so radiant smile that I give at work quite often, especially as my brides get bitchier or their mothers get more critical or their maids of honor get more jealous. But this smile, the baby shower smileâ€¦this is superhuman, really.
I know that coming today is incredibly pathetic, donâ€™t worry. Itâ€™s just that I didnâ€™t want to seem bitter by not showing up (though Iâ€™m pretty sure I am bitter, at least a little). After all, Iâ€™m the one who always wanted kids. Every time I brought it up, though, Owen said he wasnâ€™t sure the time was right, and he loved our life the way it was.
Yeah. So. That turned out not to be quite true, but we did stay friends. Coming today, thoughâ€¦pathetic.
However, I woke up this morning utterly starving, and I knew the food would be amazing at the shower. Ana-Sofia inspires people. Plus, Iâ€™m moving out of the city, so for the past three weeks, Iâ€™ve been trying to eat or give away every morsel of food in my apartment. Letâ€™s also mention that I couldnâ€™t figure out an excuse that peopleÂ would buy. Better to be an oddity here than Poor Jenny at home, scrounging through a box of Wheat-Thins of indeterminate age.
Ana-Sofia opens my gift, which is wrapped in Christmas paper, despite it being April. Liza, my host, glowers; the red and green cocoa-swilling Santas are an affront to the party vibe, which Liza noted on the invitations. In an effort to create a beautiful and harmonious environment for Ana-Sofia, please adhere to the apricot and sage color scheme in your clothing and gift-wrapping choices. Only in Manhattan, folks. Iâ€™m wearing a purple dress as a middle finger to Liza, who used to be my friend but now posts daily on FB that sheâ€™s LOL-ing with her BFF, Ana-Sofia.
â€œOh! This is so lovely! Thank you, Jenny! Everyone, look at this! Itâ€™s beautiful!â€ Ana-Sofia holds up my gift, and there are gasps and murmurs and exclamations and a few glares that I have the best present here. I cock an eyebrow at the haters. Suck Â it up, bitches. My gift was actually dashed off last night, as I kind of forgot to buy a present, but they donâ€™t have to know that.
Itâ€™s a white satin baby blanket with leaves and trees and birds stitched into it. Hey. It only took me two hours. Nothing was hand-stitched. It wasnâ€™t that big a deal.
I sew for a living. A wedding dress designer. The irony is not lost on me, donâ€™t worry. â€œCouldnâ€™t you have just bought a stuffed animal like a normal person?â€
murmurs the person on my left. Andreas (born Andrew), my assistant, and the only man here. Gay, of courseâ€”do straight men work in designer bridal wear? Also, he hates and fears children, which makes him the perfect date for me under the circumstances. I needed an ally.
Have I mentioned that the shower is held in the apartment I once shared withÂ Owen? Where, so far as I could tell, he and I were extremely happy? Yes. Liza is hosting, but the power went out in her apartment, thanks to the ham-fisted construction crew installing her new glass countertops (granite being so very last decade), and so weâ€™re here instead. Liza is sweaty and loud, rightfully worried about being judged on her prowess as hostess. This is the Upper East Side, after all. Weâ€™re all about judgment here.
The gifts (including mine) border on the ridiculous. The shower invitationÂ (engraved from Craneâ€™s) asked, at the behest of the parents, for donations to the clean-well-water charity Ana-Sofia foundedâ€”Gushing.Org, the name of which brings to mind a particularly bad menstrual period, but which raises funds for wells in Africa. Yeah. Therefore, everyone donated fat checks and tried to outdo themselves with gifts. Thereâ€™s a Calder mobile. A 1918 edition of Mother Goose stories. A mohair Steiff teddy bear that costs about as much as the rent on my soon-to-be former apartment in the Village.
My gaze drifts across the now-tastefully furnished apartment. When I lived here, it was cozier and Bo-Hoâ€”fat, comfortable furniture, dozens of pictures of my three nieces, the occasional wall hanging from Target, that bastion of color and joy for the middle class. Now, the dÃ©cor is incredibly tasteful, with African masks on the wall to remind us what Ana-Sofia does, and original paintings from around the globe. The walls are painted those boring, neutral colors with sexy namesâ€”October Fog, Birmingham Cream, Icicle.
Thereâ€™s their wedding photo. They eloped, so thank God I didnâ€™t have to go to that (or, God forbid, make her gown, which I wouldâ€™ve done if asked, because Iâ€™mÂ still pretty pitiful where Owen is concerned and canâ€™t figure out how to divorce him out of my heart). Though the photo was taken by the justice of the peace in Maine, itâ€™s perfect. Both bride and groom are laughing, slightly turned away from the camera, Anaâ€™s hair blowing in the sea breeze. The New York Times featured the photo in the Sunday Vows section.
They really are the perfect couple. Once, it was Owen and me, and while IÂ didnâ€™t expect perfection, I thought we were pretty great. We never fought. My mom felt that since Owen is half Japanese, he was a better bet than â€œthose simpletonsâ€ I dated (all of whom I hoped to marry at one point or another, starting with Nico Stephanopolous in eighth grade). â€œThe Japanese donâ€™t believe in divorce,â€ Mom said the first time I introduced her. â€œRight, Owen?â€
He agreed, and I can still see his omnipresent, sweet smile, the Dr. Perfect Smile, as I called it. Itâ€™s his resting expression. Very reassuring to his patients, Iâ€™m sure. Owen is a plastic surgeon, the kind who fixes cleft palates and birthmarks and changes the lives of his patients. Ana-Sofia, who is from Peru and speaks five languages, met Owen eleven weeks after our divorce when he was doing his annual stint with Doctors Without Borders in the Sudan and she was digging wells.
And I make wedding dresses, as I believe Iâ€™ve already said. Listen. Itâ€™s not asÂ shallow as it sounds. I make women look like they dreamed they would on one of the happiest days of their lives. I make them cry at their own reflections, I give them the dress theyâ€™ve spent years thinking about, the dress theyâ€™ll be wearing when they pledge their hearts, the dress theyâ€™ll pass onto their own daughters someday, the dress that signifies all their hopes and dreams for a happy, sparkling future.
But compared with what Owen and his second wife do, yeah, itâ€™s incredibly shallow.
In theory, I should hate them both. No, he didnâ€™t cheat with her. Heâ€™s far too decent for that.
He loves her, though. Ostensibly, I could hate him for loving her and not me. Make no mistake. I was heartbroken. But I canâ€™t hate Owen, or Ana-Sofia. Theyâ€™re too damn nice, which is incredibly inconsiderate of them.
And being Owenâ€™s friend is better than being without Owen entirely.
The quilt has made the rounds of admiration and is passed back to Ana. She strokes it tenderly, then looks at me with tears in her eyes. â€œI donâ€™t have the words to tell you how much this means.â€
Oh, shut up, I want to say. I forgot to buy you a gift and dashed this off last night with some leftover Duchess satin. Itâ€™s no big deal.
â€œHey, no worries,â€ I say. Iâ€™m often glib and stupid around Ana-Sofia. AndreasÂ hands me another cream puff. I may have to give him a raise.
â€œIâ€™m so excited about your new shop,â€ Ana says. â€œOwen and I were talking about how talented you are just last night.â€
Andreas gives me a significant look and rolls his eyes. He has no problem hating Ana-Sofia and Owen, which I appreciate. I smile and take another sip of my mimosa, which is made with blood oranges and really good champagne.
If Iâ€™m ever pregnant, though the chances of that are plummeting by the hour, I imagine Iâ€™ll have the unenviable â€œI sat on an air hoseâ€ look that my sister had when she was percolating the triplets. There was no glow. There was acne. Stretch marksÂ that made her look as if sheâ€™d been mauled by a Bengal tiger. She gnashed on Tums and burped constantly, but in true Rachel fashion, my sister never complained.
Ana-Sofia glows. Her perfect olive skin is without a blemish or, indeed, a visible pore. Her boobs look fantastic, and though she is eight and a half months pregnant, her baby bump is modest and perfectly round. She has no cankles. Life is so unfair.
â€œWe just found out that our daughterâ€™s classmate is her half-brother,â€ saysÂ the taller woman in Lesbian Couple #1. One of them just became a partner in Owenâ€™s practice, but I donâ€™t remember her name. â€œImagine if we hadnâ€™t known that! She couldâ€™ve ended up dating her half-brother! Marrying him! The fertility clinic gave Â out fourteen samples of that donorâ€™s sperm. Weâ€™re filing a lawsuit.â€
â€œItâ€™s better than adopting,â€ says another woman. â€œMy sister? She and her husband had to give back their son the fourth time he set fire to the living room.â€
â€œThatâ€™s not so bad. My cousin adopted, and then the birth mother came out ofÂ rehab and the judge gave her custody of the baby. After two years, mind you.â€
On the other side of the circle, there seems to be a heated debate over whose labor and delivery was most grueling. â€œI almost died,â€ one woman says proudly. â€œI looked at my husband and told him I loved him, and the next thing I knew, the crash cart was thereâ€¦â€
â€œI was in labor for three days,â€ another states. â€œI was like a wild animal, clawing at the sheets.â€
â€œEmergency cesarean eight weeks early, no anesthesia,â€ someone else says proudly. â€œMy daughter weighed two pounds. NICU, fifty-seven days.â€
And we have a winner! The other mothers shoot her resentful looks. Talk turns to food allergies, vaccines, family beds and the sad dearth of gifted and talented programs for preschoolers.
â€œThis is fun,â€ I murmur to Ana-Sofia.
â€œOh, yes,â€ she says. Irony is not one of her skills. â€œIâ€™m so glad you are here, Jenny. Thank you for giving up your afternoon! You must be very busy with the move.â€
â€œYouâ€™re moving?â€ one of her extremely beautiful and well-educated friends asks. â€œWhere?â€
â€œCambry-on-Hudson,â€ I answer. â€œI grew up there. My sister and her family areâ€”â€œ
â€œOh, my God, youâ€™re leaving Manhattan? Will you have to get a car? Are there any restaurants there? I couldnâ€™t live without Zenyasa Yoga.â€
â€œYou still go to Zenyasa?â€ someone says. â€œIâ€™ve moved on. Itâ€™s Bikram Hot forÂ I saw Neil Patrick Harris there last week.â€
â€œI donâ€™t do yoga anymore,â€ a blond woman says, studying a raspberry. â€œI joined a trampoline studio over on Amsterdam. Sarah Jessica Parker told me about it.â€
â€œWhat about brunch?â€ someone asks me, her brow wrinkling in concern. â€œWhat will you do for brunch if you leave the city?â€
â€œI think brunch is illegal outside Manhattan,â€ I answer gravely. No one laughs. They may think Iâ€™m telling the truth.
Now granted, I love Manhattan. To paraphrase the song, if you make it here,Â the rest of the world is a cake walk. And I have made it here. Iâ€™ve worked for the bestâ€”even Vera Wang, as a matter of fact. My work is sold at Kleinfeldâ€™s and has supported me for fifteen years. I was named one of the Designers of the Year when I was at Parsonâ€™s. Iâ€™ve been to not one but two parties at Tim Gunnâ€™s place. He greeted me by name (and yes, heâ€™s as nice as he seems).
But while I love the city, its roar, its buildings and smells, its subways andÂ skyline, in my heart of hearts, I want a yard. I want to see my nieces more often. I want the happily ever after that my sister nailed, thatâ€™s unfolding for my ex-husband and his too-nice wife.
I hope Iâ€™m running to something, not away. The truth is, work has felt a little flat lately.
Cambry-on-Hudson is a lovely little city about an hour north of Manhattan. It has several excellent restaurants (some even serve brunch, shockingly). The downtown has a movie theater, flowering trees, a park and a Williams-Sonoma. Itâ€™s hardly a third-world country, no matter what these women think. And the latest shop is Bliss. Custom-made wedding gowns. My baby, in lieu of the human kind.
My phone beeps softly with a text. Itâ€™s from Andreas, who has put in his earÂ buds in order to drown out the stories of blocked milk ducts and bleeding nipples. Check out the nose on the great-aunt. I hope the baby inherits that. I smile at him gratefully.
â€œDid you hear about the obstetrician who fathered fifty-nine babies?â€ someone asks.
â€œThat was an episode on Law & Order.â€
â€œRipped from the headlines,â€ someone else murmurs. â€œSomeone in my building was one of his patients.â€
â€œOh. Oh, dear,â€ Ana-Sofia says.
I turn to her. She looks a bit startled. â€œItâ€™s probably not true,â€ I tell her. â€œNoâ€¦I thinkâ€¦it appears my water has broken.â€
There is a silence, followed by a collective roar.
Iâ€™ll spare you the details. Suffice it to say that, despite there being a dozen women whoâ€™ve given birth all jockeying for position, my hand is the one Ana-Sofia clutches. â€œOh, Jenny, itâ€™s happening,â€ she says, and her beautiful brown eyes are wide and terrified, and then Iâ€™m easing her onto the floor and crouched between her still- slim thighs (sheâ€™s maintained her bikini wax, FYI). Off with the thong (really, itâ€™s like sheâ€™s showing off), and holy Mother of God, I can see the head.
I fumble in my purse for the travel-size Purell (if you ride the subways on a daily basis, you carry Purell). Slap some on my hands. â€œGet some towels and quiet down!â€ I bark at the other shower guests. Iâ€™m kind of good in emergencies. Liza hands me a stack of towels (very soft and about to be ruined by whatever comes out of a woman during childbirth).
â€œLet me help,â€ Liza whines. Indeed, this would make a great Facebook post.
Just delivered my BFFâ€™s baby, LOL! â€“with Ana-Sofia Marquez-Takahashi.
â€œI need to push,â€ Ana pants, and she does, once, twice, a third time, and a face appears (a baby! thereâ€™s a baby coming into my hands!). One more push, and Iâ€™m holding it, slimy and covered in white gunk and a little blood and incredibly beautiful.
Dark hair, huge eyes. A miracle.
I ease her out all the way and put her on Anaâ€™s chest. â€œItâ€™s a girl,â€ I say, covering the baby with a towel.
Then FDNY clomps in, and I entertain a quick and deeply satisfying fantasyâ€”
The head firefighter is filled with admiration for my cleverness, checks me out and asks me to dinner in the cutest Brooklyn accent the world has ever heard. His biceps flex hypnotically, and at the end of the date, yes, he does pick me up to demonstrate just how easy it would be for him to save my life, and a few years later, we have three strong sons and twin daughters on the way. And a Dalmatian.
But no, their attention is quite taken with Ana-Sofia (as it should be, I guess, though it would be nice if just one of them checked me out). Someone cuts the cord, and Ana is weeping beautifully over her daughter, and Liza holds her phone to Anaâ€™s ear so my ex-husband can sob his love and admiration for his wife, who just set the land-speed record for labor and delivery.
From down the hall, I can hear Andreas dry-heaving in the tastefully decorated powder room over the murmurs of admiration from the shower guests and the brawny firefighters as they tell Ana how amazing she is, how beautiful her daughter is.
Seems like Iâ€™m leaving the city in the very nick of time.