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Thirteen Days of Ash and Fire: Heir of Fire (Arrows + Decor)

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Shhh. I’m going to let you in on a little secret. I haven’t always, always been a wedding photographer. I technically went to college for Interior Design. Though I’m not working in that industry anymore, I still have a strong pull to good design and my heart sure does pitter patter pretty rapidly when I’m inspired by something. In today’s instance, that’s Heir of Fire, Sarah J. Maas’s latest installment in the Throne of Glass series.

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Heir of Fire (#3) by Sarah J. Maas [website | twitter]
Previously Reviewed: Throne of Glass (#1) | Crown of Midnight (#2)
Publication DateSeptember 2, 2014
PublisherBloomsbury
Pages: 565
Target audience: Young Adult
Keywords: Assassin, Queen, Magic, High Fantasy
Format read: ARC received from the Publisher. (Thank you!)

Summary: Lost and broken, Celaena Sardothien’s only thought is to avenge the savage death of her dearest friend: as the King of Adarlan’s Assassin, she is bound to serve this tyrant, but he will pay for what he did. Any hope Celaena has of destroying the king lies in answers to be found in Wendlyn. Sacrificing his future, Chaol, the Captain of the King’s Guard, has sent Celaena there to protect her, but her darkest demons lay in that same place. If she can overcome them, she will be Adarlan’s biggest threat – and his own toughest enemy. While Celaena learns of her true destiny, and the eyes of Erilea are on Wendlyn, a brutal and beastly force is preparing to take to the skies. Will Celaena find the strength not only to win her own battles, but to fight a war that could pit her loyalties to her own people against those she has grown to love?

I’m participating in the Thirteen Days of Ash and Fire: Heir of Fire blog tour and really wanted to do something that would just say more than HEY THIS BOOK IS AWESOME AND YOU SHOULD READ IT. (But I mean, you should. You absolutely should.) I’m going to highlight a few bullet points (spoiler free, of course)about Heir of Fire and then we’re going to talk design and arrows. Two of my most favorite things.

Heir of Fire picks right up where Crown of Midnight left off. This is amazing because you won’t feel like, “Blah, blah, blah, backstory, blah.” However, if you’re like me and your schedule is so intense you need a little refresher and can’t pick up the previous to books for a much-needed re-read, you should check out the Recaptains recap for Crown of Midnight and Throne of Glass. (Beware, this will spoil everything if you haven’t read the books yet.)

+ The point of view switches between so many characters — Chaol (!!), Celaena, Dorian, etc. My point is, you constantly know what’s happening with all of the characters and get vague ideas of what’s about to go down if you can fit the puzzle pieces together. But sure enough, there were MULTIPLE times I was left so incredibly shocked. (Come on, the ending? Yeah. Killed me.)

+ It’s one thing to go into a third book already loving the main character, Celaena, like whoa, but another entirely to adore her tenfold after this book. Her transformation! Holy smokes, y’all. Expect lots of growth from her. She struggles and she hurts and things aren’t always easy for her (wait, um, have they ever been?!), but you’ll want to embrace her even more.

+ There’s more layering and character development and the whole world blossoms. Up until this point, I have had a pretty vague idea (but great picture) of the whole world. Maas really zoomed out and introduced even more to really give us the complex details of what’s happening. I was imagining new characters in my head and really felt like my imagination was on fire. (ha, an Heir of Fire book pun).

I’m going to stop here before I ruin anything about this book for you. Just… PLEASE READ IT. ASAP.

I’m well aware that Celaena doesn’t use a lot of arrows personally, but they do have their significance in this story. I have a major obsession with arrows and feel like someone could dedicate an entire room (or, ahem, their whole house) to Heir of Fire inspiration. Let’s take a peek at a few of my favorite things:

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- Anthropologie Arrow Wall: I walked into my local store shortly after meeting my daughter, whose room has many arrow-releated decorations, and just knew I needed to figure out how to make these for our home. I’m actually thinking if I hung one vertically it could be a growth chart in her room over the coming years, but OMG I LOVE THIS.

Country Living Wallpaper: I found this via Pinterest. It looks like someone just scanned this image in from the magazine, but how badly do you want to track this wallpaper down and plaster it all over your walls? SO PRETTY.

Handpainted Arrows (from etsy): Good golly, Miss Molly, I adore these. I would like a set of three, and very particularly would like the one with the golden arrow.

- DIY Wooden Arrow Display: My mom sent me the link to this on Pinterest after I visited Anthropologie that day. It doesn’t have the same eye-catching affect, but it’s still pretty solid. I love that it seems so simple and easy to accomplish too. (Especially impactful if installed like this.)

- A Bundle of Arrows: K, so let’s be honest. I don’t exactly know where to purchase or find arrows, but if I did, I would have one of these (very out of reach for the little lady) somewhere in our home. I love the the little pop of color they provide!

Mint Stripes and Arrows Duvet: And how much do we love this color combination PLUS the hint of arrows? Goodness. I think this was designed specifically for me. I want!

Oh, and guess what? You can enter to win a copies of Throne of GlassCrown of MidnightHeir of FireThe Assassin’s Blade, a signed print of Crown of Midnight, and a Throne of Glass tote! Open internationally. Good luck!

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September 8, 2014 - 2:29 pm

Saniya S. - WOW…:D Loving the arrows xD

September 7, 2014 - 10:59 pm

Denise - I LOVE the hand painted arrows and the vase of arrows. I definitely would love to have those two in my house. Great post! :)

September 7, 2014 - 10:49 pm

Kari - I have read the first two books and have been dying for the third so I would really love to win! Thanks for the giveaway!

September 5, 2014 - 11:49 am

Alexa S. - I basically just want all of the arrow decorations you put in this post, M! They’re SO PRETTY. And they’re something I would consider including as part of my living room or library decorations one day. THANK YOU for being a part of the tour, and for the awesome bullet points. (And for being all CHAOL with me!)

September 4, 2014 - 10:51 am

Brittany @ The Book Addict's Guide - YESSSS. I just finished yesterday and IT WAS SO AMAZING!
I really like arrows for décor and LOVE your choices! I always want to decorate my house like this but of course… we just have zero decorations at the moment (a year later LOL)

September 4, 2014 - 10:14 am

Brianna - I don’t normally read fantasy, but I’m trying to branch out and since this series has gotten nothing but rave reviews from everyone, it seemed like a good place to start.

September 4, 2014 - 8:50 am

Hana - I am dying to read this book! Thanks for sharing your review and design ideas.

September 4, 2014 - 8:24 am

Amanda Troyer - Because the cover is GORGEOUS!

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Estelle: Charlie Glass’s Slippers by Holly McQueen

Charlie GlassCharlie Glass’s Slippers by Holly McQueen ( web )
Publication Date: August 5, 2014
Publisher: Simon & Schuster/Atria
Pages: 464
Target audience: Adult
Keywords: London, parents, half sisters, body image, career changes
Format read: ARC sent to me by a friend. (Thank you!)

Summary: After sacrificing her career to take care of her ailing father, Charlie is shocked to find out upon his death that she has been granted control over his designer shoe company. Determined to be taken seriously by her father’s ex and two half sisters, she takes  a trip to California and returns to London refreshed, 30 pounds lighter, and armed with a killer idea to get her dad’s pride and joy back to where it was years and years ago. But with a sly Diana, unhelpful sisters, and everyone treating her differently because of her new look, can she be successful?

Any book that falls right under 500 pages is going to be intimidating but I can assure you that once you get hooked on Charlie, you are not going to want to put this novel down. I loved the appeal of a modern day Cinderella set in London. With a writing style similar to Jane Green and Lucy Robinson, I was fully invested in the new life Charlie was trying to make for herself: mind, body, and soul.

Immediately, Charlie was someone I wanted to be friends with. I could understand why she felt so insecure about her business sense when it came to taking on a substantial role in her father’s company. She’s never been the most fashionable and she doesn’t have a lot of experience in PR, sales, or marketing. What she does have is nostalgia: memories of her father working in the shop when she was little, her deceased mom’s collection of some of his best shoes, and hands on knowledge of how much her father’s job meant to him.

Healthier and prepared to wow Diana, her dad’s ex, with the reemergence of the classic Elroy Glass shoe line (affordable to boot), Charlie has a lot if work to do to make this dream a reality. Now there’s the added complication of Jay, a sought after bachelor, who can’t seem to get enough of her, a best friend living with a miserable man, and the unfinished business between her and Ferdy, an old family friend (a.k.a crush) who owns an ice cream shop and is currently dating a sweet psychopath.

Whew!

You couldn’t help but root for an underdog like Charlie. She was still coming to terms with her dad’s behavior when her mother died, trying to  triumph over Diana (who has never liked her), and dealing with the emotional baggage stemming from her weight loss. I was really glad that McQueen included that last detail because so many times a character will still have body image insecurities post-loss and it was important that Charlie dealt with these.

With so much going on, McQueen still dedicated a lot of the book to the friendship between Charlie and her longtime best friend, Lucy. When other things (men, waxing, running) start to take up Charlie’s time, it was interesting to see how their relationship changed and had to be reconfigured. I loved how they cared about each other and tried to be honest even when it was hard. Plus the both had moments where they took each other for granted. Something I think happens in a ton of friendships. Here, it was explained well and you could certainly see both sides.

There is so much to enjoy about Charlie Glass’s Slippers. A few other details: cute English slang, an adorable ice cream shop with creative flavor names, and so many laugh out loud moments. Best of all, happily ever after meant more than finding romance. It focused on all the areas of life we are trying to figure out in our 20s: family, friendship, career, and feeling good in our own skin.

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September 5, 2014 - 11:48 am

Alexa S. - Obviously, I’m going to need to read this at some point! You had me at retelling ;) It sounds like such a fun book, and I really like the sound of the story. Kind of makes me think of Laura Florand’s Amour et Chocolat books (which are fun too)!

September 5, 2014 - 11:09 am

Brianna - I love long books and I love fairy tale retellings. This one sounds like a lot of fun!

September 4, 2014 - 9:31 pm

Daphne - this looks so cute. I think I will buy it :)

September 3, 2014 - 9:51 pm

elena - this sounds delightful! i love makeovers. you also had me at ICE CREAM and sweet psychopath. i must see if it’s at the library.

September 3, 2014 - 9:22 pm

Annie - Yay, I’m so happy you enjoyed this Estelle! I was crossing my fingers when I clicked on this review that it would be favourable. I’ve really been interested in reading this book for a really long time, mostly because of the cover but then I found it was like a Cinderella story and I got even more excited. Cinderella was one of my favourite movies as a child so any book that mentions Cinderella is a selling point for me. And shoes! Shoes are also a huge selling point haha :) Great review! I’m so much more excited for this book now!!

September 3, 2014 - 7:20 pm

Cameran - This sounds wonderful! I’m going to add it to my TBR list

September 3, 2014 - 10:57 am

Heather - Sounds like a fascinating read!

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On a Personal Note: A “Brave” Reminder

“I might be a little scared.”

“That’s awesome.”

“No, it’s not,” I said.

“Yes, it is, because you can only be brave if you’re scared.”

- from The Impossible Knife of Memory by Laurie Halse Anderson

Last week, I flew through The Impossible Knife of Memory (why did it take me so long to read it??) and after I finished, I couldn’t stop thinking about the above passage. So today of all days, when tons of kids will be starting a new year of classes, teachers will be learning a whole new set of kids, and when I will be starting a new job, it helps to hear that because scared is a good thing.

In fact, it’s a bit of advice I’ve heard over and over in the past few weeks. You’re nervous because you care. Or because you want to do a great job. These are all acceptable reasons for being a little shaky the first day? Okay, well. That’s good. Because I am. All of the above. Looking back at the first days of school, I was always the kind of person who stayed up all night, unable to sleep because all the anticipation. Some years, this carried onto Sunday nights too. I’m a natural born worrier; that’s definitely a part of it. On the other hand, I’m a major perfectionist so I’m sure that had a hand in it too.

As self-admitted bookworms, I don’t think I’m alone when I say I rely on books a lot during these times of change. Practically all the characters we meet are working through some version of newness, dealing with a bit of insecurity, wondering if they have what it takes, and if they will fit in. Silly as it might sound I find myself thinking “if they can do it, I can do it!”. Fully aware, my confidence boost is coming from fictional characters in fictional scenarios.

So I thought I would share a few of those titles today. Just in case you need a little cheerleading too.

Books and Bravery A List from Rather Be Reading Blog

Me Before You by Jo Jo Moyes | Things I Can’t Forget by Miranda Kenneally | Only Everything by Kieran Scott

Disneylanders by Kate Abbott | Nantucket Red by Leila Howland | There Will Come a Time by Carrie Arcos

Like No Other by Una LaMarche

Truth be told, it was difficult to narrow down this list because there are so many books that have given me support at one time or another. But I think these are a fantastic start. (Plus I read all of them in 2014 so there’s that.) Here’s hoping you have a wonderful start to your September, knowing support comes from all places in your life. Even your bookshelf.

October 20, 2014 - 7:54 pm

Liz - I really enjoy this post, and I hope your new job is off to a great start. I’m sure you’re doing great. I personally have only read ME BEFORE YOU of all of these, but now I know what to have in mind when I want something along these lines. To me, JUST ONE DAY and JUST ONE YEAR are kind of about bravery, too. I can’t wait to see more of your recommendations along this same line!

September 10, 2014 - 2:31 pm

Cassie @ Happy Book Lovers - Now I’ve got a list for when I jump into something new!

You are going to be awesome at your new job, and like you, I’m always nervous and always worrying, but once it happens, change is good. I think it keeps things interesting and fresh. And it’s awesome that books are inspirational! I mean, yes, as bookworms, we all know this, but I think sometimes we forget.

I’m saving this list for when I move, I’m officially planning to relocate to NYC soon! Exciting and terrifying! :)

September 7, 2014 - 12:43 pm

Mawa Mahima - Yes, first days are always dreadful…but thanks for the list Estelle! Good luck on your new job too :)
Luckily my first day back went pretty well, I mean when you’re pretty well versed at the art of the first day, then you tend to not get too worked up on the actual day. Needless to say, I was a nervous mess the night before (and I still don’t know why). It all turns out alright of course. :)

September 5, 2014 - 11:38 am

Alexa S. - Being brave is something that I have to choose to do constantly. I’ve come a long, long way from the days when I was an introvert, scared of my own shadow, and unwilling to take risks, especially if I felt like I would mess it up or everything would go wrong. I know you’re going to embrace your bravery and do an amazing job at your new job, complete with learning + mistakes along the way. YOU GOT THIS, E!

Also, your book suggestions are totally spot on. I can’t wait to read the latter two – There Will Come a Time + Like No Other – soon!

September 3, 2014 - 9:48 pm

Ginger @ GReads! - As someone who has just taken a giant leap into something new, I found this blog post to be very inspirational. So thank you for that. I agree that being nervous shows you care. At 33 years old, I STILL get those Sunday night jitters. But I also know in the end, everything will be okay. I’ve learned to take this leap with my eyes wide open. Ask as many questions as I can, to not be afraid of making a mistake, and soak up this experience as much as possible.

Estelle, I hope the new frontier has been wonderful so far. You’ve been on my mind! Here’s to new beginnings & the journey ahead, xo.

September 2, 2014 - 1:36 pm

Meg - Thinking of you on your first day at the new job! Totally agree that you’re nervous because you really do care and want everything to work out well, which is very normal. Like you, I once stayed up into the wee hours unable to shut my mind off before a first day of school, a big test, a new job . . . but I’m sure only great things are afoot. Love this list, too! Lots of new-to-me titles I’ll have to look up.

September 2, 2014 - 12:57 pm

Jen @Fefferbooks - I adore this list! I feel like really, no one else knows what the heck they’re doing, either. Some of us just fake it really well. ;) We’re all a little scared, sometimes, and all a little clueless. But sometimes, we all really rock. Have a great first day! Be awesome!!

September 2, 2014 - 10:25 am

Brianna - Good luck at the new job! I love Laurie Halse Anderson, so I’ll have to look for this one. I like to believe I’m brave, but the reality is there’s a terrified person on the inside who is dealing with some tough stuff and doesn’t know what’s going to happen.

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Estelle: Brunette Ambition by Lea Michele

Brunette Ambition by Lea MicheleBrunette Ambition by Lea Michele ( web | tweet )
Publication Date: May 20, 2014
Publisher: Harmony Books
Pages: 208
Target audience: teens/adults
Keywords: part memoir/part how-to, style, exercise, Glee
Format read: Finished copy from publisher* (Thanks!)

Summary: Broadway star / actress / singer Lea Michele tells the story of her life up until now, peppering in favorite recipes, looks, fashion advice, Glee factoids, and more.

If you are looking for a tell-all about Lea Michele’s life, Brunette Ambition isn’t really going to fulfill that need. Instead we get the bare bones of her fitness regiment, makeup and shopping tips, and even some of her favorite recipes in addition to how her career got started, the phenomenon of Glee, and her friendship with Jonathan Groff (my favorite!).

While I was interested in the release of the book, it wasn’t until I saw it in person that I knew I had to have it. The photography is stunning. The professional shots of Lea before and after makeup, even the ones accompanies the various exercise instructions, are so gorgeous. (She has perfect hair. I swear. I can’t even.) Not to mention she shares a bunch of instagram and iPhone pictures throughout as she tells her story.

Despite the length, she covers a lot of topics and even though it’s never completely in depth, you feel like you’re having a nice long magazine interview with her instead of just a few pages. A few of my favorite parts:

  • Her philosophy on shopping is one I really need to take to heart. Shop for basics. What should you splurge on and what should you buy at a bargain? (I love that she makes fun of some of her past fashion choices too. Been there.)
  • Have you ever thought of using a toothbrush for hair flyaways or your bangs? Me neither. But I get these all the time, and now I have a solution.
  • In a world of Lindsay Lohans and Britney Spears, I admire how Lea works so hard to stay close with her family and create a circle of trustworthy friends. I’ve read so many interviews where she talks about how she would rather stay in than go out like most girls her age, and she reiterates that often in the book. It’s nice to picture her as the kind of person who wants to curl up on her couch with wine and her cat watching crappy reality shows.
  • Since I started really following her in the last few months — her album is my summer soundtrack — I’ve been impressed by her work ethic. The amount of hours that Glee requires in addition to this book, an entire album, and appearances? She still manages to stay in shape, cook food, and be social. She’s a rock star. Seeing it all written down in one places makes it even more admirable.

And, of course, there are some quoteworthy moments too:

  • “While I get that there’s a fine line between owning your accomplishments and reciting every line of your resume, there is absolutely no shame in being proud of what you’ve managed to achieve. Own it.”
  • “I always think it’s better to scramble to learn a new skill than to sell yourself short.”
  • “Work on your friendships in the same way you’d tackle anything of importance in your life. And be judicious about the special people you let into your circle.”
  • “No matter what — the show must go on.”

I definitely see this as a book I would pick up time and time again, opening to a chapter and just reading for awhile, especially with the healthy recipes, the hair & facial concoctions, and the fitness sections. If you are a Glee or Lea fan in general, I can see where you would be interested in the whole package but as a reader who is looking for an uplifting and honest how-to, it’s worth adding to your collection. Lea’s already started on book 2, and I’m very curious how the “movement” will move forward.

I love her. I can’t help it!

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September 7, 2014 - 2:07 pm

Estelle - There’s actually one more season left BUT I totally agree. Lea is a star. She’ll do fine once the show is over.

September 6, 2014 - 4:48 am

Asma A.J - I’ve actually stopped watching Glee a while before it ended, but I do think that Lea is a star- and very driven. Might be checking this book out.

Thanks for sharing some of the tidbits!

September 5, 2014 - 11:32 am

Alexa S. - I LOVE YOU LEA!

Okay, now that I’ve gotten that bit out of the way, I can tell you that I just adore the fact that Lea did a book like this. Hearing her stories + tips about every day things sounds pretty darn awesome, and so good because she’s someone I really admire.

August 31, 2014 - 6:43 pm

Missie - This one was not on my radar at all, but it sounds amazing. I love Lea and an inside view into her world sounds awesome. You have a super cute blog ladies!
New follower :)
Missie @ A Flurry of Ponderings

August 30, 2014 - 10:53 pm

Lisa is Busy Nerding - Can I just say that I LOVE that you reviewed this on the blog? I was interested in it after it was pitched via email, but I was like “this doesn’t fit with what I do” – which is SO not fair of me to do to this book! You do a great job sharing what’s great about it and I respect that about your review style (and you in general!)

I especially love her words on friendship. YOU have to work at it, but you also need to be selective and don’t let people who don’t mesh with who you are (ahem negativity ahem) suck up your time.

<3

August 30, 2014 - 7:01 pm

Chrystal @ Snowdrop Dreams of Books - I was hoping to see a review of this pop up somewhere. I had it on my wishlist when I first heard about it. I might see if my library has it, so I can borrow it.

I really admire Lea Michelle… so this is a must read for me. :)

And I enjoyed your review of the book, now I know what it’s really all about.

August 30, 2014 - 11:58 am

Joli @ Actin' Up with Books - I’m a fan of Lea Michelle and how she presents herself publicly. One of my favorite things about watching her perform is that you can tell that she is living her dream. It comes out in everything that she does.
Thanks for sharing this review. I don’t think that I would purchase this book, but I will definitely spend a lengthy amount of time at the bookstore reading it.

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Befriended: Pip Harry on Rowing, Friendships, and Passion

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We’re back with another BEFRIENDED chit-chat with one of my favorite Australian authors, Pip Harry. She’s responsible for writing two books I’ve loved/devoured/wanted to kiss and hug, Head of the River and I’ll Tell You Mine.

When I finished HotR this summer, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. The scenes were so incredibly vivid and it was so apparent that Pip was writing from first-hand rowing experience. (Note: I think Pip is pretty bad ass for having gone through such rigorous training and lived to talk about it!) One thing I also loved seeing was Leni, a very introverted, focused girl, open up to new friendships and realizing the competition was about more than winning. I really wanted to talk to Pip about her experiences and how those transformed Head of the River.

Thank you so much to Pip for being so candid and open, and for writing such an impeccable story I can’t wait to share with my friends.

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Head of the River by Pip Harry
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Summary (from Goodreads): It’s the most elite school sporting event in the country. Nine rowers, 2000 gruelling metres and one chance for glory in the ultimate team sport. Sit forward … ROW. 

Tall, gifted and the offspring of Olympians, superstar siblings Leni and Cristian Popescu are set to row Harley Grammar to victory in the Head of the River. 
With six months until the big race, the twins can’t lose. Or can they? 

When Cristian is seduced by the easy route of performance-enhancing drugs, and Leni is suffocated with self-doubt, their bright futures start to fade. Juggling family, high expectations, study, break-ups, new relationships and wild parties, the pressure starts to build. 

As the final moments tick down to the big race, who’ll make it to the start line? And who’ll plummet from grace?

Before you began training for the Head of the River competition, how would you describe your personality?

Before I started rowing and training for the Head of the River I was a heavily chlorinated swimmer. My attitude to training and competing was entirely selfish – how fast could I go? How much could I take off my time? I had friends in my squads, but nothing like the buddies I would make in the boat.

Pip-Harry-as-a-Teenage-RowerHow were you changed by the women you rowed with and what Big Life Lessons did you take away from your experience?

The girls and women I rowed with and coached were all so different (shapes, sizes, personalities!) but we all had to learn how to blend those differences into one cohesive, powerful machine. I learnt that a bad day on the water for them was a bad day for me. It sounds corny as hell, but rowing made me appreciate working as a team and the true bonding nature of team sports. I was inspired by the coaches who believed in me and led by example and were so wise and generous with their time. I was changed by my crewmates who showed strength, desire and determination. I was changed by the competition, which was cruel and unforgiving, but also joyous and exhilarating.

I learnt so many life lessons in the boat – how to work as a smaller cog in a bigger wheel, which has helped me enormously in life and work. I learnt to quietly endure pain and suffering in the boat (think rain, cold, blister, endless drills) which has given me more grit and determination (particularly in my writing career) I learnt that even the best team can lose on the day. You need good preparation but also a sprinkle of luck and fair winds. If you want to be a contender, you’ve got to roll with the losses, get up and have another crack.

Were you more like Leni, who had a lot to learn relationally, or were you more like Cris, who lacked passion for the sport and did it to please his parents?

As a rower I was equal parts Leni and Cris. Which is why the book was so fun to write! Like Leni I was a high achiever. I rowed in a state crew at nationals, getting there on hard work, obsession and all the A type personality traits that Leni has. At times this made me incredible hard to be around. I used to get frustrated at anyone who couldn’t keep up, I preferred to row like a bull at a gate all the time (no easy strokes) and I was very strict and tough on myself. I struggled to hold down romantic relationships in my late teens and early 20s because I put myself and my training first and I was completely inflexible. On the other hand, I also had a Cris streak (who doesn’t right?) I struggled to keep my weight down because I love, love sweets and junk foods. I’m also sometimes very seduced by sleep ins and can easily be talked into skipping training. I’m quite lazy at times and at high school, my teachers despaired at the lack of effort I made with subjects that didn’t interest me or I found difficult.

Pip-Harry-Teenage-RowerHow long has it been since you were a Head of the River competitor, and what are your relationships like today with the women you rowed with?

The last crew I coached through to the Head of the River was in 1998. They were a quad scull of funny and talented 14-15 year old schoolgirls who rowed the A final and came second by a fingernail. Heartbreaking! They dissolved after that race, and I did too. We had to pick ourselves up and realise we were 2nd fasted in the entire state, and that was pretty bloody fantastic! Also, who really cared in the end? We had just had four months of laughs, fun and learning. And they had gone from virtual strangers to close friends. That’s what it’s all about. The last time I was in the boat myself was around 2005 in a veteran’s crew (aged over 27 years) I had my biggest success and won five gold medals at the Australian Masters Games. I loved rowing with those older women, because they were more settled in themselves, understood it wasn’t life or death (it was just a race) and they had better wine, food and accommodation during away regattas!

I’m still in contact with some of the women I rowed with when I was a teenager and they are in the acknowledgments page of the book. Yesterday I got an email from Lucy, who I rowed with when I was 16-18 years old. She invited me to her 40th birthday celebrations and said her husband would pay for my interstate flight as part of his present to her – that might tell you how much we value each other’s friendship all these years later! Another rowing friend, Ingrid, sat with me in a café here in Sydney and gave me ideas for certain racing scenes in Head of the River. Another friend, Kate, was my running and training buddy and even though we are now busy mums, we still meet up every few years to talk about those crazy days on the river. Others I’ve lost touch with, but they hold a marker in my heart. I will never forget anyone I rowed with.

Thank you so very much to Pip for sharing her experiences with us and the awesome teenage photographs of herself!
Friends, please, please pick up a copy of Head of the River.

Need more convincing? Read my review of Head of the River!

September 5, 2014 - 11:30 am

Alexa S. - Reading about Pip’s rowing experience was so fun! I loved hearing about her years involved in the Head of the River competition, both as a coach and as a participant. It’s great that she learned things she can apply to the other parts of her life too!

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