Perfect Girl by Michele GormanÂ [twitterÂ â€¢ website]
Publication Date:Â October 14, 2014
Publisher:Â Notting Hill Press
Target Audience:Â Adult Fiction
Keywords:Â people pleasing, crappy boyfriends, controlling parents, shady jobs
Format Read: ARCÂ from Publisher (Thank you!)
Summary:Â Carol is barely able to tread water or find time for herself because she’s constantly attending to everyone else’s needs before her own. Her mom passive aggressively manipulates her into doing what she wants, her best friend and sister don’t see how they’re abusing her, and her boyfriend is selfishly out to have his needs met before hers. What will it take forÂ Carol to learn to say no and stand up for herself?
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The Story: Carol isÂ everyone’s go-to girl: She helps her sister plan her wedding, goes on blind dates for her best friend as a pre-screener (because her BFF has the absolute worst radar ever), books her parents vacations, finds her “adopted” sister a job, works countless hours at a job she loves with men who overlook her talents and demean her with constant sexual innuendos and inappropriate jokes, and has a boyfriend who is throwing all his efforts into his new job with little quality time to spare.
Phew. That’s a lot, right?
The Build-up: Can Carol possibly say NO to anything? How does she ever sleep? What happens when she breaks? When does she EVER have time for herself?
The Breaking Point: Things get so big and bad and messy andÂ uncontrollable for Carol. She is the epitome of a people pleaser. (Anyone who thinks they are a people pleaser will relate and sympathize with this poor girl.) My heart raced and I legit thought I was going to have a panic attack as things all came to a head at once. (Of course. And really — any idea I had about how things could get worse…I was wrong. They got WAY worse.) There were a lot of moments where I found myself nodding my head as I related to this young woman. I highlighted a TON of passages.
Perfect Girl is my second novel by Gorman to read (The Curvy Girls ClubÂ was the first, but I’m reviewing them out of order). TCGC was a lot more sensual and sexy, but I foundÂ Perfect Girl to have a much more serious undertone that focused primarily on Carol’s journey to stop allowing other people to manipulate her. It was really nice to see that sex wasn’t a device used to hook Gorman’s readers; this really showed me she has a lot of diversity as an author because these two books were in no way formulaic or similar.
If you’re looking for something that feels genuine and authentic with a mid-twenties character who is trying to find her footing in the world, I definitely recommendÂ Perfect Girl. It was really nice to relate to a character and think, “Huh. So not everyone has this growing up thing figured out.”