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Review/Discussion: Uses for Boys by Erica Lorraine Scheidt

Uses for Boys by Erica Lorraine Scheidt Publication Date: January 15, 2013 Publisher: St Martin’s Press Pages: 240 Target audience: Mature Young Adult Keywords: sexual relationships, parent relationship examples, effects of neglect Format read: ARC downloaded from NetGalley (Thank you!) Summary: Anna’s mom has set a poor example for her by continuously hopping from one relationship […]

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September 30, 2014 - 12:01 am

Fifteen Must-Read Tough Subject Books - […] Uses for Boys — language + actual way it was written, but also sexually explicit, borderline uncomfortable for me — sex isn’t described as overly poetic and is raw and often very in-your-face […]

January 29, 2013 - 4:11 am

Jasmine Rose - I haven’t read this and I don’t really intend to, but I did find your post really interesting (not in a bad way, promise.)

Something you mentioned at the end kind of made me think. Everyone always gets disgruntled when a girl finds happiness through a boy, but I think that needs to be written sometimes because it does happen. Very rarely is it healthy, but it does happen.
Since my (older by a couple years) sister was 15 (she’s almost 22 now) she hasn’t spent more than a month of her life not fixating on a guy. Now, this certainly isn’t healthy. Just recently it lead to a marriage that ended after 2 months. She was with another guy within weeks. I wish she would take the time to just love herself and I’m hoping one day she’ll get to that point.

There are, however, healthy cases as well. I’ve always had pretty happy with myself and who I am, but when I started dating my husband he really brought it out in me more. He’s helped me grow into the person I am today and he’s still helping me grow. There were definitely times when I relied on him totally for my happiness, but over time I realized that /I/ need to make me happy first and foremost.

Sorry for the long-winded comment 😛

January 28, 2013 - 11:08 am

April Books & Wine - I read Uses For Boys and fell into the MEH camp. Like, for me personally, it was a little much — like I get that sex can be gross, but I don’t know, it just was too much. And far from being sex positive, I felt like it was kind of the opposite — like look at all the bad things that will happen if you do ‘it’ – Anna loses her friends and drops out of school.

But.

Going back to your question — I kind of think that Anna totally did follow in her mom’s footsteps, I don’t know that she was doomed or anything, but like even in the end she was still looking for a dude’s approval (Sam) and while he’s a good guy and all, I still sort of felt like it was just like her mom to seek validation.

Plus, okay even thinking more about this, I am getting heated up because the insinuation that if one doesn’t have a male parent, one will not turn out okay gets me mad. Like, I’m not sure that I believe that. And I know, I know anecdotal evidence does not mean a thing, but I know a ton of people who had single parents and they turned out thriving and fine and well adjusted. It just, ugh, it annoys me. And while I am not sure that’s what the author was driving it, that seems kind of like an underlying message.

January 25, 2013 - 6:10 am

Lori - This is a very thought provoking book and I think you said everything so well. I really enjoyed the story. I knew a lot of girls that turned to sex and boys as a way of escaping something and this was the first time I’ve ever come across a YA book about it. I also really loved the writing style. It was so unique and like you said, it worked!

January 24, 2013 - 9:46 pm

Bookworm1858 - This book was so hard for me to read precisely because of those decisions…and the fact that I felt so distanced from Anna-I had no idea why she chose to make the decisions she did because they are so far from my own life experience.

January 24, 2013 - 1:49 pm

Asheley Tart (@BookwormAsheley) - I LOVED this book, so much, and part of that for me was Scheidt’s writing style. Scheidt has a wonderfully blunt, choppy, flowy style that I connect to as a reader, speaker, and blogger. I am already excited for whatever her next writing venture will be because I really enjoy writing like that. (My mind thinks in that same style and format.)

I also loved this story a lot, and I think that is really special considering I’m extremely new to the YA contemporary scene. This is one of the heaviest ‘issues’ books I’ve read, and I think Anna is one of the most unique voices out there. Unfortunately, she represents a very real part of the demographic, and I think this author captured that so well. I know this because of my job experience as a OB/GYN/L&D nurse. That is not a spoiler for the book, for those who may not have read it yet – it is merely an observation from a women’s health perspective and a remark on my career and experiences. I also understand from both the standpoint of a person who has read the book and cringed AND as a women’s health nurse that works with EXACTLY this population – I understand why lots of people will probably not like this book. It’s hard to read and to know stuff like this.

Also from my personal experience, I have thankfully not followed in my parents’ footsteps. I am not Anna and have never had the experiences of Anna – but I can certainly understand that Anna felt a void. I do not understand her actions – why she let the behavior on the bus begin and the snowballing from there, like you mention – but I do believe that in the absence of good parenting, *sometimes* all it takes is a little bit of nurturing from other places – teachers, friends’ parents, etc – to entirely change a person’s life or perspective. To CHANGE a WHOLE, ENTIRE life, which is basically changing a generation or a legacy. I am a testament to that. I totally agree that it would be great to re-visit future Anna, like Ginger suggests. I would love to know that the hope I felt at the end of the book turned into something positive for her character.

Also, I think it is super cool when one book can make so many different people think so many different things. Great post, Magan.

January 24, 2013 - 10:34 am

Alexa Y. - I just finished reading this last Sunday, and I must say, the subject matter really got me thinking as well. It’s interesting to consider how Anna’s lack of a mother’s influence in her life, and the lack of a father might have affected her outlook on her own life and relationships. That might have played a part, but I also think that a lot of what Anna did go through was something that she chose without thinking too much about it and going on her impulses.

Your post has got me thinking. I’ll probably come back later with an even more coherent response.

January 24, 2013 - 8:34 am

Ginger @ GReads! - This book has become such a hot topic to discuss. I think it’s a nod to the author for creating literature that gets people talking, don’t you? I know you and I have discussed this in thorough detail, so I won’t rehash everything. But from reading your questions above, it made me consider this… do you think sometimes people (especially young, impressionable people) make bad/wrong decisions just because? Like maybe there isn’t some huge meaning behind.. sometimes those decisions are just made & thus it becomes a catalyst for where the rest of their life takes them? I would like to revisit Anna several years down the road & hear her thoughts on how she views her childhood/teenage years. I have a feeling it would be very different. At least I hope so.

Estelle: Summer Nights by Susan Mallery

Summer Nights by Susan Mallery Part of the Fool’s Gold series. Publication Date: June 26 2012 Publisher: HQN Books Pages: 384 Target audience: Adult Keywords: romance, sex, cowboys, second marriages Format read: ARC from Netgalley! Summary: Bitter from his divorce, Shane is determined to find a quiet, boring woman to marry when he settles back in Fool’s […]

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September 5, 2012 - 9:01 am

Adult Fiction Review: All Summer Long by Susan Mallery - […] I had heard the rumor that All Summer Long sizzled even more than the previous book in the Fool’s Gold series, Summer Nights. […]

August 5, 2012 - 10:47 pm

Melissa - Since July, I am reading All Summer Long right now & I am loving it!!

July 28, 2012 - 4:08 am

Stephanie G - Great review! Summer Nights was a fun story. I loved the dancing on the bar scene at the beginning. Fools Gold is such a great series. Susan is such a great story-teller and I absolutely love all of her books. 🙂

July 26, 2012 - 9:59 am

Tanya - Summer Nights is one of the best books I have read this summer! But then again, I always love Fools Gold. The playlist is awesome I love all tose songs buth what about THE Summer Nights anthem (you know the one from Grease) I know it’s not country but…I think it deserves an honorable mention. I can’t wait for All Summer Long to come out!!!!

July 23, 2012 - 10:42 pm

Estelle - Thx for stopping by Beccie! Your comment made me laugh. I should be starting her next book soon & I’m curious if she uses the same words… we shall see.

July 23, 2012 - 9:31 pm

Beccie Weaver - I’ve found that most romances I read lately all have the same sex scenes. I love Susan’s books so much but yes the scenes tend to sound cut and pasted

July 15, 2012 - 9:48 pm

Melissa - Summer Nights is a great summer read. Annabelle is caring, a great friend, & so sweet! I love that Annabelle wanted to learn how to ride a horse for her fundraiser for her bookmobile. I don’t want to give away anything. I love that there is so many surprises! There is 1 thing that I absolutely love a lot & it has to do with Shane, but I am not going to give it away. Summer Nights is my favorite book in the entire Fool’s Gold series!

July 9, 2012 - 1:22 pm

Dollie - I love the Fool’s Gold series, and your play list is AWESOME! I could totally see Luke Bryan or Jason Aldean holding a concert in Fool’s Gold. Your review of Summer Nights reminded me of how much I loved reading the book! My favorite part of Summer Nights has to be the ever growing farm 🙂

July 7, 2012 - 1:20 pm

Michele - I loved “Summer Nights” and the way Shane and Annabelle connected as friends and he didn’t even realize he was in love with her until she turned his marriage proposal. From cover to cover, this was a great book and for me, her books always end to soon. I can’t wait to read Charlie and Clay’s story in “All Summer Long”. I will be so sad when this trilogy comes to an end and we have to wait until next summer to get our fix again!.

July 6, 2012 - 4:34 pm

Tiffany - I love Susan Mallery’s books. I think this is a great read for those who love romance but want a great story to go along with it. Susan has built up her Fool’s Gold stories by building upon the town and it amazes me how they each stand alone but are perfect as a series too! I’d recommend buying this one and reading it again later.

July 6, 2012 - 7:07 am

Shannon - Fool’s Gold is addicting! Summer Nights was a perfect summer book. It should be on everyone’s must read list! Enjoy!

July 3, 2012 - 2:20 pm

Estelle - J, I think we need a sequel just about Shane.

July 3, 2012 - 2:20 pm

Estelle - S, let me know how you like the playlist! I really tried to capture the feeling in the book. Like utter hotness. ha

July 3, 2012 - 2:20 pm

Estelle - E, yep! The next book in the series is supposed to be even hotter. I got approved for it yesterday… and I’m scared. ha

July 3, 2012 - 5:18 am

VeganYANerds - I don’t read a lot of romance novels but this does sound fun! I like that there was a librarian and that she wasn’t stereotypical. I am wary of the way romance authors tend to overuse descriptions, but if it was only towards the end, I’m sure it’s not too bad!

July 2, 2012 - 5:12 pm

Alexa @ Alexa Loves Books - YAY FOR THIS PLAYLIST! I always like a good country recommendation, though I only started listening to it fairly recently. And this book sounds like a lot of fun! I’m definitely going to have to give this Fool’s Gold series a try 🙂

July 2, 2012 - 4:25 pm

Sharon @ Fictionally Inclined - A librarian and a cowboy? Yes, please! That pretty much guarantees any book a spot on my TBR list, regardless of plot, haha.

I’m excited to check out the playlist, too! I love listening to country music in the summer, so that will be perfect.

Great review. 🙂

July 2, 2012 - 12:17 pm

elena - Ooh, this book got you blushing? It must be really something then! Romance novels are fun and addicting. I mostly read historical romances but maybe I will branch out one day.

July 2, 2012 - 10:19 am

Jess @ Gone with the Words - I’m so happy you liked this one! It’s one of my favorite romance series and am always excited when my friends read them and like them. 🙂

Also, that playlist couldn’t be more perfect, Estelle!!! I’m going to listen to it anytime I feel like remembering the hotness that is Shane. 😀