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		<title>Estelle: Lock and Key By Sarah Dessen</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 18:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Estelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Lock and Key by Sarah Dessen Released: May 14, 2009 Pages: 432 Target Audience: Young Adult Why I picked it up: Trying to read a bunch of Dessen. Format: Hardcover borrowed from the library. Summary: At a young age, Ruby is forced to take charge of her life due to her M.I.A. and irresponsible mother. When [...]</p><p>Leave us some love! We love blog comments. <a href="http://ratherbereadingblog.com/estelle-lock-and-key-by-sarah-dessen">Estelle: Lock and Key By Sarah Dessen</a> on <a href="http://ratherbereadingblog.com">Rather Be Reading</a>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='button_count' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http://ratherbereadingblog.com/estelle-lock-and-key-by-sarah-dessen' data-shr_title='Estelle%3A+Lock+and+Key+By+Sarah+Dessen'></a><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http://ratherbereadingblog.com/estelle-lock-and-key-by-sarah-dessen' data-shr_title='Estelle%3A+Lock+and+Key+By+Sarah+Dessen'></a><a class='shareaholic-tweetbutton' data-shr_count='none' data-shr_href='http://ratherbereadingblog.com/estelle-lock-and-key-by-sarah-dessen' data-shr_title='Estelle%3A+Lock+and+Key+By+Sarah+Dessen'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div><strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Lock-Key-Sarah-Dessen/dp/067001088X"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-187" title="Book Cover of Lock and Key by Sarah Dessen" src="http://ratherbereadingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/lockandkey.jpg" alt="" width="181" height="280" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1295102.Lock_and_Key">Lock and Key</a></strong> by <a href="http://sarahdessen.com/" target="_blank">Sarah Dessen</a><br />
<strong>Released</strong>: May 14, 2009</div>
<div><strong>Pages</strong>: 432</div>
<div><strong>Target Audience</strong>: Young Adult<br />
<strong>Why I picked it up</strong>: Trying to read a bunch of Dessen.</div>
<div><strong>Format</strong>: Hardcover borrowed from the library.</div>
<div><strong>Summary</strong>: At a young age, Ruby is forced to take charge of her life due to her M.I.A. and irresponsible mother. When her mom disappears and the landlords find out, Ruby begrudgingly reunites with her sister, whom she hasn’t seen in many years.</div>
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<div>This was the second Sarah Dessen book I’ve read (the first being <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/104378.Keeping_the_Moon">Keeping the Moon</a>, which I absolutely loved). For a long time, Ruby thought she was fooling the world into thinking her life was just fine. Somehow ignoring the fact that electricity wasn’t working and water wasn’t running. The reality: her mom has split, she can’t keep up with the bills, and pretty suddenly she finds herself living with her sister and husband in a huge house and unlimited amounts of money. The girls have not seen each other since Cora left for college. Now she is a successful lawyer married to Jamie, a guy she met in college who also has a prosperous career.</div>
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<p>It’s heartbreaking because when the sisters were younger Cora took the brunt of her mother’s behavior to protect Ruby and somewhere along the way they lost that. Their sibling dynamics, in addition to Ruby’s “friendship” with the boy-next-door, Nate (who has problems of his own), really force Ruby to examine her past and figure out how to stumble forward.</p>
<p>What made this book so addicting for me was the gradual change in all of the characters and the realization that the word “family” means many things to different people. Sometimes that is a lot to deal with, especially for Ruby and Cora, who grew up with a mother who was destructive in a number of ways.</p>
<p>Dessen does a great job of making these characters and their feelings tangible and by the final chapters, I couldn’t stop picking up the book during my work day. I was satisfied that she left readers with realistic conclusions and most of all, hope.</p>
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		<title>Estelle: The Gap Year by Sarah Bird</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2011 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Estelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The Gap Year by Sarah Bird Release Date: July 5, 2011 Pages: 320 Target Audience: Adult Fiction How I found out about it: A scrap of paper in my purse. Summary: Cam used to have a close relationship with her daughter, Aubrey. But ever since she started dating Tyler, Aubrey doesn’t seem very interested in anything [...]</p><p>Leave us some love! We love blog comments. <a href="http://ratherbereadingblog.com/estelle-the-gap-year-by-sarah-bird">Estelle: The Gap Year by Sarah Bird</a> on <a href="http://ratherbereadingblog.com">Rather Be Reading</a>
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<div><strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Gap-Year-Sarah-Bird/dp/0307592790/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1320017821&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-151" title="gapyear" src="http://ratherbereadingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/gapyear.jpg" alt="" width="142" height="234" />The Gap Year</a></strong> by <a href="http://sarahbirdbooks.com/" target="_blank">Sarah Bird</a><br />
<strong>Release Date</strong>: July 5, 2011</div>
<div><strong>Pages</strong>: 320</div>
<div><strong>Target Audience</strong>: Adult Fiction<br />
<strong>How I found out about it</strong>: A scrap of paper in my purse.</div>
<div><strong>Summary</strong>: Cam used to have a close relationship with her daughter, Aubrey. But ever since she started dating Tyler, Aubrey doesn’t seem very interested in anything anymore. Namely, college – something Cam has worked very hard to make happen for her daughter.</div>
<div>Once in awhile I am lucky enough to read a book I cannot stop thinking about. I want to send carrier pigeons and take out an ad on TV just to inform people of its pure genius. After reading over 90 books so far this year, The Gap Year easily fits in my Top 5 of 2011.</div>
<div>First, writing style – Bird alternates chapters between Mom (Cam) at present day and daughter (Aubrey) exactly a year before. The imagery is crisp and the sentence structure flows perfectly in its simplicity. (While this book is description heavy &#8212; something I normally don&#8217;t love, it is engrossing here.)</div>
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<p>Second, the mystery of how these two stories will end remains until the very end. It doesn’t seem like the kind of book that would remain predictable for so long but Bird has carefully created these characters and their histories so much that the drive to discover them is always existent.</p>
<p>Mother and daughter relationships are never easy, and to watch Cam obsess over the navigation of her daughter’s life &#8211; and for Aubrey to have some major life epiphany during her senior year of high school &#8211; is completely intense. From start to finish. As a reader, I could relate to both on many levels and at the same time I was frustrated by their actions.</p>
<p>And regret. Many write it. It can easily fall into the realm of cliché. But both of these women (and the other characters we meet throughout the course of the novel) have their own unique responses to it. That’s what makes The Gap Year so real: Bird is able to take the complexities of this trying year in this particular household and consistently express them in such a down-to-earth manner.</p>
<p>Easily a favorite for life, I’m looking forward to reading more of Bird’s work, as well as urging everyone I pass on the street to pick it up n o w!</p>
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