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On a Personal Note: Magan in High School

There have been a few books that have really hit home for me or elements of them that I’ve related to so, so well. Just last week, I couldn’t stop thinking about Eleanor and Park because so many of Eleanor’s thoughts felt like I lived them. They felt real to me. This made me start […]

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March 8, 2013 - 11:52 pm

Jasmine Rose - So much of this sounds like my life.
My town was so small our school was literally pre-k through 12.
I met my husband during track season (the only sport I sort of enjoyed) when I was sixteen and we got married when I was 19. Luckily we were surrounded by people who supported us, though. Heck, most of our church helped at the wedding.
It took a while for us to say “I love you,” but I was his first girlfriend and I was terrified of breaking his heart since I’d been in three previous relationships where everything seemed to be going great and then BAM I just didn’t like them anymore. In the end, though, we both knew we wanted to be together pretty early on.
It’s kind of funny looking back on it because neither of us talked about wanting to get married specifically, but we’d talk about our future lives. We even had a hypothetical cat that we named ๐Ÿ˜›

Also, you should know you’re the one to finally convince me I need to read Eleanor & Park :]

March 7, 2013 - 7:49 pm

Magan - Thanks, Anna! ๐Ÿ™‚ Young Magan says “HI!” ๐Ÿ™‚ xo

March 7, 2013 - 1:07 pm

Anna - LOVE THE PICTURES ESPECIALLY! Hi young Magan! <3 <3 <3

March 3, 2013 - 1:50 pm

Magan - Tara, thank you! This post has kept me thinking about all kinds of things since I wrote it. It’s crazy how such minor moments in our lives can make us connect to books in such profound ways. ๐Ÿ™‚ xoxo

March 3, 2013 - 1:49 pm

Magan - Ginger, even though we didn’t know each other back then, I’m so, so glad we know one another now. Seriously — love getting random g-chats and texts and messages from you. Thank goodness book blogging brought us together! And all of those books you’ve named at the end of your comment? Favorites of mine. Except, well, you know I’ve failed and still haven’t read Amy & Roger’s Epic Detour. Major slacker here. I have bawled my way through all of them, so I can’t imagine how you felt having read them with personal experience losing a parent you were so close to. Love you, G.

March 3, 2013 - 1:47 pm

Magan - Maria! Thank you so much for reading our blog and for your awesome comment. It means so much to me. And thanks! I’m so glad we like the same books! xo

March 3, 2013 - 1:46 pm

Magan - Alexa! Thank you so much! I’m so glad you’ve found you’re special someone so young, too. People certainly gave me the side-eye a lot when I told them I was getting married so young, but for real — best decision of my life. I love this man so much. I wish you and Macky all the best! I cannot wait to see wedding photos! xo

March 3, 2013 - 1:45 pm

Magan - Elena, you’re the best! Thank you for this comment. You know what’s strange? I could totally see you trying the lilac hair. That didn’t surprise me one bit when I read that. You’re brave. (I’m not sure I could ever do lilac — Dustyn might FLIP if I tried, but he’s surprised me and gone with some pretty crazy things I’ve done, so IDK.) Thanks for the awesome comment, love. xo

March 3, 2013 - 1:43 pm

Magan - Sharon! Thanks, doll! I didn’t realize you were homeschooled! I love that! I have read about a few YA characters that were homeschooled. Have you ever come across a book with that kind of character that you related super well to? I went to my best friend Leslie’s youth group a lot when I was in high school, so I relate to you there. Thank you for your sweet comment!

March 3, 2013 - 1:41 pm

Magan - Mandee! Thank you, love. It’s hard to be so open about things, but at the same time, I think a lot of people question why YA is what I prefer to read. I can just relate so, so well to all those emotions. Your comment was SPOT ON. And yay for you wearing a similarly colored dress! Great minds! ๐Ÿ™‚

March 3, 2013 - 1:40 pm

Magan - Jenny, Mostly Good Girls is on my to-read list. I love good stories about friendship and you’ve intrigued me! You’re absolutely right that Miranda’s dialogue is awesome. I think it’s super awesome that you, too, married one of your best friends. I totally feel that way about Dustyn. And yes, if you haven’t read Jenny’s books you MUST READ THEM. MUST. ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you for commenting! I really appreciate it. xo

March 3, 2013 - 1:38 pm

Magan - April, I couldn’t agree more about friendship being important in a relationship. Not all relationships start out this way, as you said, but I think it definitely helps when you know you’ve got so much in common. ๐Ÿ™‚ I wish (so badly) that I had been a music girl. My school was so small that we didn’t really have these things. (Well, at all.) I hope one day I can get my kids involved in something musically because Dustyn and I cannot carry a tune. And big families! Dustyn’s extended family is huge too — it was something I loved so much when I first met them all (we started dating right around Christmas so it was like BAM – meet the fam). Oldest kids are the best! April, I’m still positive that even at 15 lbs. heavier, you were adorable. ๐Ÿ™‚ I could not agree more with you about the whole YA girls being privileged comment. I’ve been thinking that a WHOLE LOT lately. And finally — I didn’t realize you and Allison have known each other for so long! That’s amazing! Makes me admire your friendship even more. Thanks for the (AMAZING) comment, lady!

March 2, 2013 - 5:24 pm

April @ Books And Wine - Oh my gosh, you were so adorable in high school! And ugh, I need to read Eleanor and Park.

I can’t quite relate to Belly, but I like that a lot of people were into their friends. I think friendship makes a strong basis for a good romantic relationship. I always dated guys that I was acquaintance with. And then in college I went a bit wild and was very casual and awesome until I met Tony, who again, we dated without being friends first and surprisingly met while I was um, imbibing grown up beverages. But yeah, despite my not actually experiencing this, I love reading about it.

SPORTS! I was totally more of a music wing girl — I did choir and bad and was awful at both. I did do cheerleading my 8th grade and freshman year and went to the football games after that. So, yeah I like books about characters who are into sports even though I wasn’t particularly good at them.

My Life Next Door! I love that book because I could identify with it in that my extended family is huge – my dad and my mom both are one of five kids, and so going to my grandparents’ house, especially on my dad’s side is nuts like that book. ALSO! How cool that you have friends with families like that. I’m the oldest too! YAY OLDEST KID! AKA the best kid!

Hehehe, at cringing at old photos. Me too yo, but for different reasons. This is awful, but I was like 15 lbs heavier in high school and I just look so different now and looking at those pictures reminds me of a time when my self esteem and confidence weren’t quite where they are now.

I love love love that you have the courage to admit to being from a low income family where you couldn’t always have people over because of the food thing. Me too. I think a lot of YA is about girls who come from privileged backgrounds or you know at least upper middle class and it’s hard for me to relate to that coming from a lower economic class. But I think too, you really do come out of those experiences appreciative for what you have and not you know, stuck up or anything and kind of open minded.

I feel you on having a close group of friends. My coblogger Allison was one of my closest friends growing up and still is. I’m close with a few of those other people too.

Also, that picture of you and Dustyn at senior prom is sooooo cute!

March 1, 2013 - 4:42 pm

Jenny @ Mimosa Stimulus - There are a lot of times when I’m reading a book and have to stop and tell myself, “Yeah, that was so me in highschool.” I’d have to scour through my read list to remember some of them, but one that jumps to mind is Mostly Good Girls by Leila Sales. Violet and Katie remind me SO MUCH of my best friend and I in high school. It could have been a story about us.

I totally identify with the sporty thing and maybe that’s a big part of why I love Miranda Kenneally’s books so much. (That, and I think her dialogue is brilliant – it sounds like the ridiculous conversations I would have with my friends and family.) And I also identify with the crushing on your best friend thing. A few times it worked and then ended badly, once time it never happened, and then the last one I married. So it turned out well. And I know what it feels like to have that one who got away I guess. (I should probably read Jenny Han’s books, huh?)

I love this post so much. And I love it when I find a piece of myself in books.

March 1, 2013 - 4:23 pm

VeganYANerds - Magan, I adore how you and Estelle are so willing to share such personal stories on RBR! I loved your post on how you and Dustyn met and this one about high school is just as wonderful. I think this post highlights so well why adults still want to red YA. It’s so nice to relate to younger characters with the hindsight that we have now as adults.

p.s I wore a similar coloured dress to my formal, too!

March 1, 2013 - 4:00 pm

Sharon @ The Book Barbies - Thank you so much for sharing this, Magan! I know it can be difficult to get super personal, but I love getting to know you more through things like this. And I love it when people share pictures! That picture of you and Dustyn at prom – swoon! So beautiful!

It’s always interesting to me to read YA books, since I was homeschooled my entire life until I came to college. I can relate to some aspects, but there are tons of things I basically have to take authors’ word on. I was involved in our church youth group and a local homeschool theatre company, so I relate a lot of things to those experiences.

March 1, 2013 - 3:42 pm

elena - i love youuuuu so much and this made me love you even more.

i loved hearing about each book & your memories & all those lovely and totally nostalgic photos of you. it made me feel closer to you and want to hug you hard. i can’t relate to the young love aspect but i LOVE that you found the love of your life and it’s so, so sweet. your story makes me feel all sappy. i want to be experimental with my hair too!! i want to have lilac hair. too bad i have dark brown hair so it’s super hard to dye, le sigh. i did have dip dye last summer though. my family didn’t have their own house until i was in middle school so i get what you mean in that aspect.

the last photo is wonderful!! bb magan is so qt. thank you so much for sharing! <333

March 1, 2013 - 3:12 pm

Alexa Y. - Oh M, you made me tear up while reading this post. I have so much love for the fact that there are personal experiences that inform the way we read and relate to books, and I enjoyed seeing particular examples from your own life. It’s truly an honor that you were able to share this with all of us, and I don’t want to forget that ever.

Also, I love this particular line – “…young love can be lasting love.” You and I have talked a little about this before, and I’m in complete agreement. Macky and I met when I was 15 years old, and two dates later (!), I knew I loved him and he knew he loved me. And look where we are now – planning our wedding!

ACK. Now I wish we lived closer to each other so I could give you a MASSIVE hug.

March 1, 2013 - 3:12 pm

Maria - I just started reading this blog and I don’t know you, but this was a beautiful post and it really moved me. Thank you for sharing.

AND you seem to have an excellent taste in books. ๐Ÿ™‚

March 1, 2013 - 10:34 am

Ginger @ GReads! - I loved reading this, Magan. Seeing a glimpse inside high school Magan through the books you’ve read (myself, too) makes it so much more tangible. I can totally see who you were and what you went through. I wish our lives would have crossed paths back then. I think you would have been such an influential friend in my life when I needed it most. Though I try my best not to regret anything, there are surely moments I would do over if given the chance.

Whenever I read a book about a teenager losing a parent, I immediately identify with them. Granted, I was 22 when my mom died, but I was still young and impressionable. That sort of loss is something a child never recovers from, unfortunately – no matter what age it happens at. We just learn to live a different sort of life. A few YA books that stand out most about this topic for me would be: Holier Than Thou, The Summer I Turned Pretty, The Survival Kit, Second Chance Summer, Amy & Roger’s Epic Detour, Moonglass, & The Beginning of After.

You are such a beautiful person, Magan <3

March 1, 2013 - 10:30 am

Tara - What a beautiful, heartfelt, personal post Magan! You can identify with so many stories and you did such a great job of pairing your life experiences with these books. That last pic of you and Dustyn at the prom is the cutest thing ever! xoxo

Top 10 Tuesday: Those OTHER Blogs We Visit

Happy Tuesday! The Broke & the Bookish has done it again — another great meme that is sure to cause our Google Readers to blow up even more. I don’t know about you guys but Magan and I do a lot of blog reading and while we absolutely love perusing all the fun book blogs, […]

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June 18, 2012 - 3:13 pm

Alexa @ Alexa Loves Books - I’m going to be in trouble now – I’m catching up on the blogs I’m already reading BUT you guys have given me a great set of blogs to check out. I can’t wait to go through – especially MK in Wonderland, since that one sounds fabulous.

By the way, I’ve been a long time fan of Keiko – I think she’s so pretty and I love her makeup tutorials. Plus her dog is adorable!

May 28, 2012 - 10:52 am

Hannah @ So Obsessed With - I already love The Beauty Department, but I’m so excited to check out some of the others on here. I love affordable fashion blogs (because so many of them blog about clothes that are WAY out of my price range) and am addicted to anything interior design. Can’t wait to add some of these to my reader!

May 27, 2012 - 12:30 am

Alison (AlisonCanRead) - Problogger sounds great. I need to check it out. I love J’s Everyday Fashion.

May 22, 2012 - 9:48 pm

VeganYANerds - Today has been the most unproductive day for me work-wise because all I’ve done is visit these top 10 posts and then spend hours going through all these cool sites! You two have listed the most that interest me and such a good mix too (home/fashion/make up) – I don’t think I will get anything done for the rest of the day!

May 22, 2012 - 2:43 pm


May 22, 2012 - 1:38 pm

Mary - Disney Hipsters is the most brilliant thing ever. I love disney! Also thanks for the tip re problogger – and sending me to the good books, good wine post! I’m just starting out and much of this is very confusing!


May 22, 2012 - 12:24 pm

Lisa - I was putting together my Top Ten blogs and have A Practical Wedding in there too (and I also got married almost a year ago now)! I definitely agree that it keeps life in perspecitve.

May 22, 2012 - 11:41 am

Nicole - Lauren features free fonts? I’m in. /love me some fonts.

May 22, 2012 - 11:15 am

Angela @ AJ Arndt Books Blog - Great links! Following you on Pinterest ๐Ÿ™‚ I Love Disney.

May 22, 2012 - 10:23 am

Vikk @ Down the Writer's Path - Great list of sites. I enjoy Problogger, too. This is turning out to be a great Top Ten Tuesday. Lots of new places to visit.

May 22, 2012 - 10:11 am

April Books & Wine - Sigh, I need to make trip 3 to Disney World, maybe if I take those Problogger tips and make enough blog bank that can happen LOL.


May 22, 2012 - 9:49 am

Jamie - Oooh fun sites! I will be checking out all of these. I read The Beauty Department and ProBlogger as well. For another blogging site, read Copyblogger!

May 22, 2012 - 7:58 am

Ginger @ GReads! - I went & checked out that blog (MK in Wonderland) and after reading her Mother’s Day post, I forwarded it to both my sisters – who are both Moms to boys. I thought they could use some words of encouragement.. especially since I know one of my sisters is going through those rough sleepless nights & is about to strangle someone lol.

May 22, 2012 - 7:20 am

Alexis @ Lit. Hitchhiker - I love your list- what awesome blogs! I just got engaged a few weeks ago and I’m already obsessed with SMP but I hadn’t heard of The Practical Bride yet!. Can’t wait to check it out! Lauren Elise Crafted sounds really cool too- I love crafty/creative folks. I’m always so impressed with the things they can dream up. I go could on and on about pretty much every blog on this list but instead I’ll just bookmark ’em and get reading. ๐Ÿ™‚ Thanks for sharing!

May 22, 2012 - 6:46 am

Annabelle H - Wow, I love the Disney site!

My Top Ten!

May 22, 2012 - 5:43 am

Lori - I’m definitely checking out Lauren Elise Crafted and Keiko Lynn! They sound fabulous! I really need to visit more non-bookish sites so I’m excited to start reading everyone’s favorites!

My Top Ten

May 22, 2012 - 5:02 am

BarefootMedStudent - These are awesome, especially the Disney Hipster Blog. Fits and giggles!

Feel free to visit my TTT ๐Ÿ™‚

May 22, 2012 - 12:32 am

Laura @ The Traveling Owl - I love finding new blogs to check out. This doesn’t look good for my productivity at work tomorrow.

Magan, I have to agree with you regarding you love of Beauty Department. I will sheepishly admit to watching The Hills and Laguna Beach, and I find LC so fascinating. It’s great that she’s transitioned her career into what it is today.

Great list, ladies!

May 21, 2012 - 11:52 pm

Melissa @ Writer Grrl Reads - I couldn’t come up with any non-book blogs for this week’s TTT, but I shall definitely be checking out some of your favourites! Especially the crafty ones — I used to be much more crafty than I am now. Feeling the urge to scrapbook…

May 21, 2012 - 11:24 pm

Melanie - I really like Problogger, but the blogging blog I read most often is Copyblogger. They share a lot of similarities, though.

May 21, 2012 - 11:20 pm

elena - Estelle, I love how much you love Disney!! I haven’t been to Disneyworld in awhile but you make me want to go. I even have a free ticket that I need to use! I love the look of Lauren Elise Crafted and I’m glad she was so encouraging when you were having your wedding.

Magan, I didn’t know you were an interior designer by degree! I think that’s awesome and even more awesome you’re a wonderful wedding photographer. I love looking at your wedding photography site, haha. Your photos really capture the couples! I’ve heard of Problogger but never really used it. I’m hopeless with SEO so here’s to hoping they can help.